It's Time to Overcome!

A common misconception in bringing up children is the idea that we should judge and treat a child according to his behaviour and personality. I believe this is one of the least effective ways to raise children, and is actually the cause of many of children's problems.

   Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. 

                                                                           prov 18:21

The greatest influence in a child's life is their parents. The words you speak and the attitude you have towards your child are a mighty force. Your words, your attitude, your belief will set your child on a course toward the destiny you have chosen for them. (Most people do this unconsciously) Until children can think and decide and BELIEVE for themselves, you are the determining factor in their lives.

STEP 1:

Make a definite decision that your children will become successful, strong, well rounded, secure people (be more specific if it suits).

STEP 2:

Always speak well of your children, regardless of their behaviour. Your words will either BLESS or CURSE your children

STEP 3:

Spend 10minutes each morning and night imagining your children fulfilling their dreams and becoming the people you desire them to be.

STEP 4:

Firmly discipline your children, but always finish the discipline with encouragement, reminding them that everyone makes mistakes and this in no way means they are a failure!